I used to see the world in black and white. It used to be more about who was right and who was wrong. But now that I am experiencing more cognitive dissonance of concurrent truths, I'm learning how a person's perspective causes them to believe in the truth of their stance.
And then it's not so much about being right or wrong but about understanding where someone else is coming from. This is where Harmony comes from but it takes movement from one stance to another in order for it to happen. And that takes work. It takes patience.